Affair with neighbour who has girlfriend and baby keeps my mind off ill dad

DEAR DEIDRE: I’M having secret intercourse with my next-door neighbour and there’s no means I’ll give him up although he has a girlfriend and a child.

He feels the identical and says intercourse with me is one of the best ever.


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I’m 18 and he’s 21. His girlfriend is 19 with a boy of six months. They all stay together with his mother and father who moved subsequent door a yr in the past. The household turned pleasant with my mum and pop.

I acquired near this man accidentally. We are mates on Facebook and after an evening out with girlfriends and a bit an excessive amount of to drink, I despatched him a message saying he was scorching and I fancied him like mad. He replied saying, “Me too.” After that, we began sexting day by day.

When his girlfriend went into hospital to have their son, I went spherical to his place within the night. His mother and father have been on the hospital “meeting their grandson” and we opened some cans to have a good time the start. It was the primary time we had been alone collectively. He kissed me and it was so candy and romantic.

He stated he actually fancied me and we ended up on his mattress kissing. Then we had superb intercourse.

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The night time his son was born was the primary time we had been alone collectively – the intercourse was superb[/caption]

He stated he wished us to hold on however we must be very cautious to not get caught.

Whenever he’s in the home alone he texts me, or vice-versa, and we handle to sneak a while to have intercourse.

We all the time use condoms however, to be trustworthy, it will not hassle me if I acquired pregnant. I’d simply run away and have his child. He is on my thoughts 24/7 which is nice for me or I fear about my dad who’s being handled for lung most cancers.

My brother gave me his previous telephone lately so now I hold that simply to message my lover. That means my mum and pop will not be more likely to discover out about us both.


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DEIDRE SAYS: I perceive how overwhelming your dad’s sickness have to be and your fears it’s possible you’ll lose him however it’s virtually inevitable that you’ll get caught out earlier than lengthy.

Just assume how horrified and disenchanted your mother and father might be in you. They’ll marvel how you might do that at such a time.

Having a child does put a pressure on a pair and this man is dealing with it the worst doable means.

His poor girlfriend might be exhausted. You will perceive when you will have a baby your self.

Stop seeing this man now. Tell him he needs to be at house caring for his girlfriend and child. You deserve higher than to be somebody’s responsible secret.

Put your energies into discovering somebody who’s free, too.

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