DEAR DEIDRE: I WOKE up to find my husband lying dead next to me a year ago today. He had heart trouble and had died while he was sleeping.
He was only 54. I am 53 and will never get over the shock. I cannot remember much about the first few weeks after he died as it was a blur.
I have struggled to function ever since, if I am honest.
My kids have been good but they are grown up and have now both moved out, so I am alone. I went back to work two weeks ago but it is too soon.
I just couldn’t cope and have been signed off sick. How on earth am I going to move forward?
Caught my girl in bed with another man… then he did something I didn't expect
SEX WITH SISTER
I had sex with my sister and now we are having a full-on relationship
My girl's wild step-sister seduced me in toilets and I'm disgusted with myself
My brother-in-law is my daughter's real father… and my husband has no idea
More, more, more!
Hot romps with sex-on-legs housemate always leaves me wanting more
Family are furious over my hot sex with brother's sister in law
I had hot sex with my 53-year-old mum-in-law while my wife was on life support
I've been bedding my 'uncle' and now his son is blackmailing me into having sex
Love my girlfriend, but find I get more pleasure from porn than sex with her
I had hot sex at Glastonbury… but I was the 20th guy she'd bedded that weekend
DEIDRE SAYS: I am sorry you lost your husband so young.
As well as the normal stages of grief at your loss, you sound to be suffering from post-traumatic stress.
My e-leaflet Help For Bereavement explains how grieving can affect us but do also ask your GP for treatment for PTSD.
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