DEAR DEIDRE: I AM starting to doubt my masculinity because I couldn’t get an erection while trying to have sex with my wife.
I’m 32 and she is 30. We have been in an arranged married for six months.
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I have a girlfriend, too. I have been having sex since I was 18 and I have never had erection problems such as this before.
I was not well one night but I had sex with my wife then went to bed in the spare room afterwards, as I was feeling poorly.
She followed me, as she wanted more. We usually have sex three or four times a night. But I wasn’t up to it and she was really angry.
She made some comments about me, questioning my sexual prowess. It is so hurtful for me to be judged like this.
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I am not getting along with my wife now.
I don’t have any problems having sex with my girlfriend. It only happens with my wife.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Feeling unwell can block your sexual responses and now resentment is getting in the way when you have sex with your wife.
My guess is your wife either knows or suspects you are cheating on her.
That could be why she felt anxious and insecure when you didn’t seem to want to have sex with her as much as usual.
Break with the girlfriend and I think your sex life with your wife will return to strength.
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