I had amazing sex with a coworker but she’s gone cold — should I keep texting her?

DEAR DEIDRE: I HAD amazing sex with a girl I work with but now she seems to have gone cold.

I’m 22 and she’s 20. We’ve been colleagues for almost a year but we were really flirting with each other at a party.

I had amazing sex with a coworker but she’s gone cold and now I’m not sure what to do
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We ended up back at her place and had sex. We’ve slept together a few times since. I really like her, but I feel she’s going cold with me. It’s always me that texts first.

I did raise the subject of us getting together but she made it clear she’s not sure what she wants just yet. I’ve fallen for her, so should I continue to text her?

DEIDRE SAYS: This girl’s change of heart sounds to have been more about her own issues than rejecting you.

Best not to text too often for now as it might feel like you’re pestering her.

Be friendly to her when your paths cross at work but don’t push it. Take a step back and give her space to think. She’s more likely then to take a step forward.

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