DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE never been in a relationship because of my appearance.
I know women find me ugly and repulsive to look at.
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I see the way they avoid me in the street, move away from me on the bus and generally find it uncomfortable being around me.
I’m a 35-year-old man. I’m always being told by others that looks aren’t important, but they are clearly wrong. I think I have a nice personality, but that’s got me nowhere.
How will any woman give themselves a chance to get to know me when they can’t stand the sight of me?
I don’t want to be lonely for the rest of my life.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Most people have something about their appearance that they don’t like but self-limiting beliefs are holding you back.
Sometimes, a small effort to focus less on what you see as the “negatives” can have a positive effect.
If you can accept and love yourself the way nature intended, others will too. My e-leaflet on Raising Self-Esteem can help you to build up positive feelings about yourself.
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