DEAR DEIDRE: I WORK just to pay the bills and I no longer have any fun or intimacy in my life.
I no longer fancy my wife and we haven’t had sex for eight years, ever since our little girl was born.
I understood at the time, but she has never recovered her sex drive.
Every time I asked for sex she would turn me down, so now I don’t bother asking her any more.
I don’t want to be the instigator only to be rejected.
We argue over silly things but I think this is down to frustration.
She sits at home every evening messaging her mates on her phone.
It gets on my nerves. She is 32 and I’m 35.
DEIDRE SAYS: What a miserable picture you paint.
Tell your wife your marriage can’t last like this and the sour atmosphere must be grim for your little girl.
Caught my girl in bed with another man… then he did something I didn't expect
SEX WITH SISTER
I had sex with my sister and now we are having a full-on relationship
My girl's wild step-sister seduced me in toilets and I'm disgusted with myself
My brother-in-law is my daughter's real father… and my husband has no idea
More, more, more!
Hot romps with sex-on-legs housemate always leaves me wanting more
Family are furious over my hot sex with brother's sister in law
I had hot sex with my 53-year-old mum-in-law while my wife was on life support
I've been bedding my 'uncle' and now his son is blackmailing me into having sex
Love my girlfriend, but find I get more pleasure from porn than sex with her
I had hot sex at Glastonbury… but I was the 20th guy she'd bedded that weekend
Insist you either work together to revive your relationship and your sex life, or work on parting as peacefully as possible.
Relate counselling can help both of your (relate.org.uk) as will my e-leaflet Saving Your Sex Life.
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