DEAR DEIDRE: I WAS propositioned by my neighbour but I’m a virgin.
I don’t know what to do about her offer of sex. I’m a man of 32 and have never had a relationship.
The other day I went to help this neighbour, whose car needed jump-starting.
I know her to say hello to. Afterwards we swapped numbers.
She’s about 35 and married but her husband has a job that takes him abroad most of the time. She lives three doors away.
She messaged me last night saying she would love sex with me by way of a thank you – and it would be our secret.
Is this too good an offer to turn down? I wouldn’t want her husband to find out.
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DEIDRE SAYS: You feel flattered but this is an invitation best refused.
Nobody needs these complicated scenarios, especially on their own doorstep – and it wouldn’t be fair on her husband either.
Thank the neighbour but decline gracefully, saying some day you might need a favour she can help you with.
The best sex comes within a loving relationship.
So if that is what you want, my support pack called Finding The Love Of Your Life might help you find that special somebody.
In turn, this could lead towards a satisfying sex life.
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