DEAR DEIDRE: MY WIFE has simply informed me her fantasy is of us having a one-night stand the place we act out totally different personalities.
She is 32, I’m 33 and we’ve been married for 4 years.
Is spouse’s one-night stand fantasy the place we act out totally different roles regular?[/caption]
I admit I used to be bowled over listening to her speak like this. She went on to say she has by no means accomplished something adventurous like this earlier than and didn’t need me to assume badly of her.
She defined that she hears such stuff talked about on a regular basis at work and finds it thrilling.
I discovered it thrilling too, though a little bit unnerving, fact be informed.
I requested her why she wouldn’t wish to be herself on this situation and her reply was she was scared she would love it an excessive amount of.
Our intercourse life is nice anyway however ought to I be frightened in any respect?
Is that this a standard role-playing recreation?
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DEIDRE SAYS: There aren’t any holds barred in what you and your spouse can select to do as a pair as a part of your intercourse life.
All that issues is that nobody is harm both bodily or emotionally, and you might be each comfy with no matter methods you determine to spice issues up.
It feels like you might be each excited however a little bit nervous about experimenting so take it one step at a time.
My e-leaflet Sexual Fantasies will provide help to determine what’s OK and what’s not.
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