My husband sneaks off to look at porn every night – even if we’ve had sex

DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN my husband thinks I am asleep he leaves the bedroom to watch porn and masturbate.

This happens every night, even when we have had sex. We have only been married for five years. I am 34, he is 33.

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He thinks I don’t know what’s going on, but I’ve checked his history and it’s all porn[/caption]

I was very hurt when I first realised, and my self-esteem took a nosedive. He often tells me how beautiful I am and he says he wants only me. So why does he do it?

I would not mind if it was just sometimes but every night is too much surely? I need to know if this is normal and if I am being stupid minding so much.

DEIDRE SAYS: You are not being stupid. Of course you mind and of course you feel rejected.

Most men watch porn sometimes but every night is too much. Tell him his obsession has to be brought under control if he wants to keep you with him.

My e-leaflet Upset By Pornography? explains help.


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