DEAR DEIDRE: OUR sex life is almost non-existent and I’m worried I can’t satisfy my girlfriend because I’m not well-endowed.
We have been together for five months. I am 29 and she is 27. I know that a couple of her past lovers were well-endowed.
She says she can’t reach orgasm through penetration but I am not sure. I think she’s just saying that to help me feel better. She keeps avoiding sex and I’m unsure what to do.
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DEIDRE SAYS: The problem isn’t size – you’re fine as nature intended.
Most women, like your girlfriend, reach orgasm through stimulation other than intercourse. For them good sex depends on skill, not size – read my e-leaflet, Manhood Too Small?
Your girlfriend clearly knows what helps her reach orgasm so ask her to show you – and what would help her feel like having sex more often. It may be about feeling more loved or appreciated.
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